How do I feel about my essay?

Personally, I am kind of bummed out about my essay. It is nothing specific that happened to it, it is not that I don't know about my subject enough, it just didn't turn out like I wanted. I couldn't quite get things to come out specifically just how I wanted them. As a writer, that is really a big problem for me.
Things I've changed about my essay based on my comments? I guess the prevailing opinion is that my essay singles out cat-haters and doesn't appeal to them. I've tried to fix it around to where it was more widely appealing, but there is just no more I can do. I am so disappointed about it, believe me, but I just can't make it work for you guys that hate cats.
It is impossible for ME to make MY essay appeal to cat-haters (emphasis on the 'ME' and 'MY' because I won't say it is impossible to do, it is just impossible for me to do). It is an essay about cats, and unless I wrote about how much I hate them it wouldn't appeal to a cat-hater. If I toned down the love for my cats and tried to make it more 'middle of the road', it would make my essay less effective, because you wouldn't see how much they have changed me as far as my capacity for love. It is just so difficult to please everyone, and I've been stressed out about this stupid essay since it was assigned, so I am just glad it's over.

Hopefully next time will be better, and I will make at least a B. :[